Christmas recap

Well, Christmas was good, but not as good as Fesitvus. The drive up the coast on Wednesday to Santa Maria was very nice though, some rain but not much and really no traffic to speak of. I did have a little fun with my ex husband and that's always good. I went by his parents house to visit and exchange gifts with my ex-MIL and he was there with his new little sancha and the kids. So Heidi introduces me as her friend to "Annie" and she doesn't even really look at me, just continues playing with the kids. But what can you expect, she's 20 for cripes sake. Anyway, I'm making little snide comments to my ex, and at one point I mention that it's ironic that my new boyfriend has the exact same name as my ex. But I don't call him my ex, I just say "hey my new BF has the same name as you, how ironic, huh?" and he's like, "yeah, very" but he's giving me a look which I completely ignore. The "Annie" goes upstairs for a while with the kids and Heidi says, "Ewan really likes Annie (Ewan is around 20 months old)" and I say, oh, that's nice, but of course I'm thinking of something sarcastic and my ex is looking at me and I'm smirking and I say "I was going to say something sarcastic but restrained myself" and he's like "yeah, right" so I say "well, they are almost the same age, no wonder he likes playing with her" and Heidi is cracking up, the ex is glaring at me, I'm laughing and I say "plus, they are like the same height, kids love that". Ha, he's such an idiot. So then "Annie" goes to the store with my exes sister in law and he tells his mom and I it's cuz she figured out who I was and is uncomfortable. And Heidi tells him, how is that our fault, you knew Jean was going to be here and I introduced her as my friend, if she figured it out that's not our fault. And he's like, I know, but it's still uncomfortable for her. So I ask him, does she know you have a first ex wife? And he says yes, he's told her about me, about me having cancer and becoming good friends with his mom again, blah blah, and I say, well then if she knows it shouldn't be a problem, right? And he's just being a moron, saying but it's awkward, whatever. So she comes back and he goes upstairs with her and the kids and my ex-MIL & FIL and I are laughing and making fun of him, it was great. So I found out later, he didn't exactly tell her about me, he told her I was "an ex" as in girlfriend but when she went to the store with the sister in law, she grilled her and found out I was actually wife #1 and that he left me for wife #2 who he then left for... Annie. So she says, "that sounds like a pattern" and the SIL says, "no shit". So I guess they were fighting the rest of the time, gotta love the holidays! I also got my hair done and went to my girlfriend's moms house Christmas night, had some wine and dessert, it was very nice. Then I came home yesterday and went to dinner and a movie with the BF, he stayed over and we are going out again tonight, or staying in, whichever sounds better :) It's been a very eventful holiday season so far and I still have New Years!